Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Our Proposal Story

ring-shot My engagement ring, chosen entirely by Eric. Sweet and simple, just like him.

My proposal was sweet, simple, and a litle bit quirky. Kinda like the guy I married. Want to know the story?

Like many couples, Eric and I had talked about getting married and our timeline to do so, so while the moment and day was a surprise the general time wasn't. I knew it was coming sometime and I was hoping for sooner, rather than later.

A few nights before the actual proposal Eric had made plans with me to go on a hike at a waterfall. I don't know if Eric intentionally made those plans to throw me off or if it was just happened to want to go on a hike at that time (it wouldn't surprise me if he didn't even realize it), but either way it definitely confused me. I was expecting that hike to be the day.

A few nights before we were supposed to go on the hike, Eric called me in the evening to see if I wanted to watch the sunrise the next morning. He said we would have to leave at 5 or 5:30 or something crazy like that. Not being a morning person and not expecting a proposal (remember, I was expecting it at the hike) I rolled out of bed minutes before Eric came to pick me up. I was wearing my pajamas and I definitely didn't do my hair or make-up.

We took the freeway exit that would take us up the hill to get a good view of the sunrise, but we turned off at the street leading to the church. I didn't say much, I thought, maybe this was is, and I started to get really nervous. We pulled up in the back and Eric led me out to the "island." There is two streams on either side of a lush, green island area. It is beautiful. As we walked up I saw the gazebo glowing. As we crossed the bridge and got closer to the gazebo I realized there were hundreds of tealights lit all around the edges.

Eric led me to the middle of the gazebo, got down on one knee, and after declaring his love asked me to marry him. Of course I said YES! and the two of us were SO excited!

Now, here's where the quirky part starts...

I'm not sure exactly when, I think we had already started to drive away, Eric described how he went about with his engagement plan. He woke up early and him and his twin brother, Scott, had lit all of the hundreds of candles. Scott was even hiding somewhere taking pictures of our engagement. I felt bad for poor Scott, who wasn't even acknowledged, so we drove back to share our excitement with him and he took a few more pictures for us.

After the pictures Scott asked us if we wanted to go out to breakfast to celebrate. After calling our family members and stopping by my mom's house Eric and I met Scott for breakfast. The three of us celebrated our engagement....at Denny's!

Now, tell me your engagement story. Was it what you'd imagined?

19 comments:

  1. Such a lovely story! My proposal was similar- I knew it was coming just didn't know when. My hubby said he was making me something and I had to wait for that to be finished. We made plans to go to these beautiful gardens not too far away. I wasn't expecting a proposal because he said my gift wasn't finished. Little did I know! We spent the day picking out our favorite tree in the park (I love trees!), and at the end of the day he proposed under a beautiful large oak tree with a ring box that he made for me! It was perfect.

    Funny thing is- is that a week later my sister got engaged, but her now husband accidentally forwarded her an e-mail intended for his boss that said he was planning the proposal. She was so nervous and excited all week until he popped the question!

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    1. What a beautiful story! I love that you guys spent the day picking out your favorite tree!

      And, oh my goodness, with your sister's story. What did her husband think when he found out he forwarded her the email? haha!

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  2. So special and fun! My proposal was in the evening while we were out for a walk. I knew it would be coming sometime soon and so I wasn't completely surprised that he popped the question.

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    1. So sweet! It's definitely hard for it to be a completely surprise!

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  3. ahhhhh.............So CUTE!!! Love this! How romantic and I ADORE That he made his brother wait in the bushes to take pics:)
    Thanks for sharing Morgan!!

    My hubby and I knew we wanted to get married from day one but we also knew we wanted to date for a while before hand. We got engaged 4 years into our courtship but I was in NO rush at all and I had made it clear I wanted to be surprised, I didn't want any of this, "lets go to the store together and pick out a ring nonsense"
    So yes, I was very surprised when it happened.'He did it at home. It was very romantic and intimate. I donlt like big scenes and he knew this so I was happy to be at home.
    We went out for a HUGE lobster and steak dinner afterwards. It was awesome!

    xoxxo Hanna

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    1. I love LOVE that your proposal truly was a surprise. I think that happens so rarely. It sounds like the perfect proposal!

      We didn't do any of the let's go pick out a ring together either. So, did your husband pick out your ring? Do you love it?

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    2. Well......that's another story:) I loved the diamond but not the setting of the ring. The white gold part was really big and chunky, it almost looked like a mens ring, so I actually kept all the original diamonds but had it reset into a more dainty setting! I thought if I'm going to be wearing it for the rest of my life, I bettering it, right? So yes, now I love it!!! My wedding band is amazing too:)

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    3. Ok, now you need to post a photo!

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  4. I found out I was pregnant 1.5 months after M and I started dating. Luckily, he took the news with characteristic grace-- and declared that he already new he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and baby doesn't change anything.

    So, we knew we were going in that direction, but he had to get a ring. The morning it arrived, he call my best friend and left a voice mail saying that they needed to talk soon because he had the ring and needed help planning something amazing to ask me.

    He was too excited to wait for that call back. That night, in our jammies-- me in the throws of morning sickness.. he kneeled next to the me beside the bed and asked me to marry him. It was absolutely perfect.

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    1. What a beautiful love story (and proposal story) the two of you have!

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  5. Such a sweet story!
    My husband and I were watching Full House in our hotel room and he got down on one knee and asked me. I knew it was coming sometime soon but definitely didn't expect it while watching Michelle Tanner!

    I'm sharing all about how we met on Thursday at Little Spindle (http://littlespindle-dani.blogspot.com/) and I'd love for you to stop by.

    Dani :)

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    1. Ha! I love that Michelle Tanner (and, my personal favorite, Stephanie Tanner) was right there for your proposal!

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  6. My husband proposed sort of "on a whim" as well. He went golfing with his dad and our preacher that day. My grandmother and her husband were in town. Mimi and I are best of friends and my husband knows that. So he walked in from golfing and handed Mimi a flower stating his appreciation for her being there. He stood there smiling like a fool and said, "Look at the flower." Mimi finally noticed a sparkly little ring hanging from the pistol and handed it to me. He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him in front of her, her husband, his parents, and his grandmother. It was beautiful. (My family is over 1000 miles from where we live so this was special)

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    1. Oh, that is such a precious story! I love that Mimi got to be right there and a part of the proposal. SOO sweet!

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  7. I love it!!! And I HAVE to share, that engagement ring is identical to mine. :) Apparently our husbands DO have good taste. :) Love the story. :)

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    1. I LOVE that we have matching rings!!

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  8. Amazing! I would hardly call that a simple engagement! What a wonderful, thoughtful, truly lovely way to start a life together!

    Wanna know how my husband and I got engaged? We were in India, he was working, I was on a tourist visa, and we woke up one morning and were like, ummmm, we should get married. It would be so much easier for the visa paperwork. No ring, no plan, no bended knee. Just TA DA! engaged!

    We were planning on getting married one day, far, far away, but bureaucracy just changed the timeline. We like to joke that I married him for my visa. And we love telling the story about how we pulled together a wedding in no time under crazy complicated circumstances. As we've gotten to know more and more expat couples, so many of them have stories similar to ours; a last minute trip to city hall to make it "official" so an unexpected move could happen, or one partner could stay in the country. Not your typical engagement story, but so us!

    Anyway, I've been so busy I'm so behind in visiting my blog friends. I'm enjoying catching up on your marriage series. Nice one! Hi! Missed you! Hope all is well!!

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  9. SO sweet:) loved reading this over my morning coffee:)
    My husband and I dated for about 4 months, he lived in northern Alberta and me on the east coast US, on one of his visits (he planned it around my birthday) he had apparently been in cahoots with my younger sister about what ring to buy. she and my mom knew everything, sadly my dad died a few years ago, SO wish he could have been apart of this:) anyway, my husband waited until my birthday, drove me out to a small lake, we started a camp fire and ate s'mores, oddly he didn't have an appetite that night as i chowed down on chocolate and marshmallows;) finally we sat looking over the water, he quietly asked me if i wanted to have more nights like this throughout my life and i KNEW what the next question was after he said that!;) we wasted no time, we were engaged in September and married in November! we've been married almost four years and just had our third baby:)

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  10. Caroline3:36 PM

    I am thinking there is nobody in the world that could understand how funny this is as much as I can;). hahaha

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